Life Longings

We believe everyone deserves to experience moments of joy, comfort, and connection - even at the end of life. This brand new program from Friends of Hospice in Oswego County is designed to help individuals fulfill meaningful wishes, enjoy special milestones, or find comfort in their final days. Whether it's a simple gesture or a long-held dream, we are here to help make it happen.  

What is Life Longings?

Life Longings supports individuals who have a prognosis of 12 months or less by granting requests that improve quality of life or celebrate cherishes moments. These requests can range from a favorite meal, to a personal visit, to special treatments that bring comfort and joy. The goal is to help people live as fully as possible in their remaining time.

Frequently Asked Questions

Who Can Participate?

To qualify for the Life Longings program, individuals must:

  • Reside in Oswego County
  • Have a prognosis of 12 months or less
  • Be of sound mind and capable of safely participating in the request

Referrals are welcome from patients, families, caregivers, Case Managers, Social Workers, Doctors, or anyone else in the community who may know of a need.

Life Longings Requests

What Can You Ask For?

We honor a wide range of requests designed to bring comfort and joy. Here
are some examples of Life Longings that we can assist with:

  • Dinner from a favorite restaurant
  • Fresh flower delivery
  • Hair or nail care services
  • Barber services
  • Holiday meals or special family gatherings
  • Assistance with visiting a loved one
  • Tickets to a show or event

What's Not Included?

While we aim to fulfill a variety of wishes, certain requests fall outside the
scope of the program. Life Longings does not cover:

  • Extravagant vacations or trips
  • Hunting trips
  • Legal or financial assistance
  • Funeral or burial costs
  • Automotive, Boat or RV purchases
  • Rental or mortgage assistance
  • Medical treatment
  • Privately hired care

**Final Discretion of all Life Longings requests will be left to the Dream Team committee.**

Get Involved!

We rely on the generosity and support of our community to fulfill meaningful requests and bring comfort to individuals at the end of life. There are many ways you can help—whether it's through your time, talents, or resources. Here’s how you can get involved:

Volunteer with Our "Dream Team"
Join our passionate group of volunteers and help make life-long wishes come true. Your time and dedication can make all the difference.

Donate Gift Cards from Local Businesses
Help us fulfill requests like a favorite meal, flowers, or a special treat by donating gift cards to local restaurants, shops, or services.

Donate Skills, Services, and Time
Do you have a skill or service to offer? Whether it’s hair styling, photography, or another talent, your contribution can brighten someone’s day.

Sponsor a Life Longing for $100
Your $100 donation can make a dream come true for someone in our community—whether it’s a special dinner or a visit to a loved one.

Follow Us on Facebook and Share with Friends
Help spread the word about Life Longings! Follow us on social media and share with your network to raise awareness and increase support for our program.
If you're interested in helping in any of the ways listed above, please contact us today. Every bit of support makes a lasting impact, and we appreciate your willingness to join us in creating moments of joy and comfort for those in need.